Intimate Partner Violence: Understanding, Prevention, and Support

According to the World Health Organization (WHO), “Intimate partner violence refers to behavior by an intimate partner or ex-partner that causes physical, sexual or psychological harm, including physical aggression, sexual coercion, psychological abuse, and controlling behaviors.” The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) expands their definition of abuse to include stalking and provides uniform definitions. Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) occurs among individuals regardless of their gender, age, race, or socioeconomic status. It is not just about physical violence; it often includes emotional manipulation, coercion, threats, and control, which can severely affect a victim’s sense of self-worth and autonomy.

Types of Intimate Partner Violence:

  • Physical Abuse: Includes hitting, slapping, choking, or any other form of physical harm intended to control or intimidate.
  • Emotional/Psychological Abuse: Involves belittling, threatening, or controlling behavior that undermines the victim’s mental health and self-esteem.
  • Sexual Abuse: Any non-consensual sexual activity, ranging from coercion to forced intercourse.
  • Financial abuse: Controlling or limiting a partner’s access to financial resources, making it difficult for them to live independently.

Healthy People 2030 Objectives Related to Intimate Partner Violence (IPV)

Healthy People 2030 is the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services’ (HHS) initiative to improve the nation’s health over the next decade. Healthy People 2030 aims to reduce the prevalence of intimate partner violence, improve support and services for victims, and prevent IPV from occurring in the first place. Achieving these objectives will contribute to healthier, safer communities and improved overall public health outcomes.

HRSA's Strategy to Address Intimate Partner Violence

The Health Resources & Services Administration (HRSA) 2023-2025 Strategy identifies three aims grounded in an equitable and community-driven approach to preventing and responding to IPV that the HRSA Bureaus and Offices will prioritize through strategic objectives and key activities:

The Impact of Intimate Partner Violence (IPV)

Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) can have severe and lasting effects on the physical, emotional, and psychological well-being of survivors. These impacts are often complex and long-term, affecting not only the victim but also their families, communities, and society as a whole.

How IPV Impacts Survivors

IPV often results in physical injuries, some of which can be life-threatening or lead to permanent disability. Common physical injuries include bruises, broken bones, head injuries, and internal damage. Long-term health issues can also arise, such as chronic pain and cardiovascular problems.

IPV is also a significant risk factor for sexual and reproductive health issues. This includes sexually transmitted infections (STIs), unwanted pregnancies, and complications related to sexual assault or forced intercourse.

IPV has a profound impact on the mental health of victims. Survivors often experience depression, anxiety and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), low self-esteem, and suicidal thoughts and behaviors.

IPV can affect a person’s behavior and relationships where survivors may develop a substance abuse disorder, experience isolation, and have difficulty in forming healthy relationships moving forward.

IPV has wide-reaching effects on survivors such as economic costs. Survivors may lose their jobs due to physical injuries, emotional distress, or the need to escape an abusive situation. Medical bills, therapy costs, and legal expenses add to the financial toll. This can also lead to workforce issues such as absenteeism, decreased productivity, and difficulty focusing at work.

IPV can affect future generations, creating a cycle of abuse that is hard to break. Children who witness IPV are more likely to experience emotional and behavioral difficulties and may be more susceptible to becoming involved in abusive relationships as adults. This intergenerational trauma can perpetuate the cycle of abuse, making prevention and intervention crucial in breaking the pattern.

In the United States, more than three women per day, on average, are killed by their husbands or boyfriends. Women face a higher risk than men of abuse by an intimate partner, making up 84% of victims in cases involving a spouse and 86% in cases involving a boyfriend or girlfriend. Approximately three-quarters of individuals committing family violence are men.

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  • In the U.S., 15.5 million children live in homes where partner violence has occurred in the past year, with seven million exposed to severe partner violence.
  • About one in three adolescent girls in the U.S. faces physical, emotional, or verbal abuse from a dating partner.
  • Young women aged 16 to 24 experience the highest rates of dating violence.
  • A significant majority of parents (81%) either don’t believe teen dating violence (TDV) is an issue or aren’t aware if it affects teens.
  • Over 80% of high school counselors report feeling unprepared to handle incidents of abuse on campus.
  • Between 50-80% of teens say they know someone in a violent relationship.
  • More than half of teens (57%) report knowing peers who have been physically, sexually, or verbally abusive to a dating partner.
  • One in three adolescents has experienced emotional, physical, or sexual abuse in a dating relationship.
  • Only 33% of teens in violent relationships told anyone about the abuse, and 86% said they would turn to a friend rather than a trusted adult.

Global Impact:

  • According to the World Health Organization (WHO), approximately 1 in 3 women (30%) worldwide have experienced physical and/or sexual violence by an intimate partner or sexual violence by a non-partner in their lifetime.

U.S. Statistics:

  • In the United States, data from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) shows that:
    • Nearly 3 in 10 women (29%) and 1 in 10 men (10%) in the U.S. have experienced rape, physical violence, and/or stalking by a partner and reported it having a related impact on their functioning.
    • Approximately 1 in 4 women in the U.S. reports having experienced violence from a current or former partner at some point in her life.

Everyone deserves to feel safe and supported.
If you need help, take the first step;
Confidential support is available.

Survivor Hotlines

Free | 24/7 | Confidential
Call: 800-799-SAFE (7233) or 800-787-3224 (TTY)
Text: “START” to 88788. Message and data rates may apply. Text STOP to opt out.
Chat: thehotline.org

Free | 24/7 | Confidential
Call: 888-373-7888
Text: 233733 (BEFREE) or use TTY: 711
Chat: humantraffickinghotline.org/en/chat

For Immediate Help

Survivors and their loved ones can access the free, compassionate, confidential support of a Confidential Sexual Violence Advocate (CSVA) by calling New Jersey’s 24-hour statewide hotline at 1-800-601-7200 or by finding a local sexual violence program.
If someone is in immediate danger, call 911.

Additional Resources for Survivors:

24 hours a day, seven days a week, 365 days a year, the National Domestic Violence Hotline provides essential tools and support to help survivors of domestic violence so they can live their lives free of abuse.

Contacts to The Hotline can expect highly-trained, expert advocates to offer free, confidential, and compassionate support, crisis intervention information, education, and referral services in over 200 languages.

Visit www.ncadv.org to learn more.

The mission of the New Jersey Coalition to End Domestic Violence is to lead collaborative community and systemic responses to domestic violence by providing public awareness, training, advocacy, policy development, technical assistance and supportive services. Read More at www.njcedv.org.

The New Jersey Coalition Against Sexual Assault (NJCASA) is the statewide advocacy and capacity-building organization that represents New Jersey’s 21 county-based sexual violence programs and the Rutgers University – New Brunswick Office of Violence Prevention and Victim Assistance. Visit www.njcasa.org to learn more.

One Love Foundation is a national non-profit with the goal of ending relationship abuse. They empower young people with tools and resources to see the signs of healthy and unhealthy relationships and bring life-saving prevention education to their communities. To Learn More, Visit www.joinonelove.org.

A project of the National Domestic Violence Hotline, love is respect offers 24/7 information, support, and advocacy to young people between the ages of 13 and 26 who have questions or concerns about their romantic relationships. We also provide support to concerned friends and family members, teachers, counselors, and other service providers through the same free and confidential services via phone, text, and live chat. Visit www.loveisrespect.org to learn more.

Free legal assistance to low-income people for their civil legal problems.  Their legal information website, www.lsnjlaw.org, provides self-help resources on a number of legal topics.

Phone: 1-888-LSNJ-LAW (1-888-576-5529)
www.lsnj.org
Monday-Friday, 8am-5:30pm

Provider Resources

As trusted providers, you play a vital role in supporting those affected by IPV. By partnering with local shelters, legal aid, and counseling services, you can help connect victims to essential resources and support.

Webinars and Trainings

Futures Without Violence Webinars

Futures without Violence provides a variety of upcoming and archived webinars on IPV.

Health Partners on IPV + Exploitation Webinars

Health Partners on IPV + Exploitation resources library includes webinars containing a variety of topics related to IPV.

NJ Coalition to End Domestic Violence Training

Provides training opportunities to providers. 

Futures Without Violence Toolkit

This toolkit serves as a key resource for health centers, DV agencies, and community organizations. It’s regularly updated to include the latest tools and strategies for addressing health issues related to intimate partner violence, human trafficking, and exploitation.

CUES Intervention

The CUES intervention by Futures Without Violence encourages healthcare professionals to discuss the impact of relationships on health and available support options with all patients. Unlike standard screening, CUES doesn’t require patients to disclose abuse to access information and resources. This approach ensures that patients are informed about survivor support services and can share these resources with friends and family who might benefit.

Provider Tools

Health Care Response to Domestic Violence

Quality assessment tool intended to provide community health centers with guiding questions to assess the quality of care related to the promotion of healthy relationships and intervention related to IPV, human trafficking, and exploitation within their health care delivery.

Ten Steps to Create a Comprehensive Domestic Violence Health Care Response

Steps to create a domestic violence response for health centers.

IPV Toolkit for Health Centers

Toolkit that outlines how to implement IPV services in a health center.

HRSA 2023-2025 Strategy 

Overview of HRSA’s 2023-2025 strategies responding to IPV.

IPV and Domestic Violence Programs by County

ATLANTIC COUNTY

AVANZAR
24 Hr. Hotline: 1-800-286-4184
Deaf & Hard of Hearing Text
Line: 609-569-5437
avanzarnow.org/

BERGEN COUNTY

Center for Hope and Safety
24 Hr. Hotline: 201-944-9600
Text “LOVEIS” to 22522 if you are unable to speak safely on phone
www.hopeandsafetynj.org

Bergen County Alternatives to Domestic Violence
24 Hr. Hotline: (201) 336-7575
www.co.bergen.nj.us/divisions-of-alternatives-to-domestic-violence/alternatives-to-domestic-violence

BURLINGTON COUNTY

Providence House Domestic Violence Services
of Catholic Charities
24 Hr. Hotline: (609) 871-7551
www.catholiccharitiestrenton.org/locations/burlington-county/

CAMDEN COUNTY

Camden County Domestic Violence Center
24 Hr. Hotline: (856) 227-1234
Camden County Domestic Violence Center

CAPE MAY COUNTY

CARA, Inc. (Coalition Against Rape & Abuse, Inc.)
24 Hr. Hotline: (609) 522-6489
Toll free: 1-877-294-2272 (CARA)
www.cara-cmc.org

CUMBERLAND COUNTY

Services Empowering the Rights of Victims (SERV)
24 Hr. Hotline: 1-800-225-0196
Access line: 1-877-922-2377 (1-877-9-ACCESS)
www.centerffs.org

ESSEX COUNTY

Access Family Services *
24 Hr. Hotline: 862-444-3126
www.afsnj.org/
*Program oversees Slyvia’s Place (Emergency Shelter)

Essex County Family Justice Center
Phone: 973-230-7229
www.essexcountyfjc.org

The Safe House
24 Hr. Hotline: (973) 759-2154
www.rwjbh.org/clara-maass-medical-center/treatment-care/domestic-violence/
www.essexcountynj.org/ceas_directory/safe-house/
*Program provides shelter to victims of domestic violence

 

The Rachel Coalition of Jewish Family Service

Division of Jewish Family Service of
MetroWest New Jersey
24 Hr. Hotline: 973-740-1233
www.rachelcoalition.org

GLOUCESTER COUNTY

Services Empowering Rights of Victims (SERV)
24 Hr. Hotline: 1-866-295-SERV (7378)
Access Line: 1-877-922-2377 (1-877-9-ACCESS)
www.centerffs.org

HUDSON COUNTY

Womenrising, Inc.
24 Hr. Hotline: (201) 333-5700
www.womenrising.org

HUNTERDON COUNTY

SAFE In Hunterdon
24 Hrs. Hotline: 908-788-4044
www.safeinhunterdon.org

MERCER COUNTY

Womanspace, Inc.
24 Hr. Hotline: (609) 394-9000
Deaf & Hard of Hearing Text Line: (609) 619-1888
www.womanspace.org

MIDDLESEX COUNTY

Women Aware, Inc.
24 Hr. Hotline: (732) 249-4504
Deaf & Hard of Hearing Text Line: 1-876-658-7713
https://womenaware.net/

Manavi Inc.
24 Hr. Hotline: 1-732-435-1414
www.manavi.org

A non-profit organization dedicated to ending all forms of violence against South Asian survivors. Agency staff & volunteers are bilingual in over 14 different South Asian languages. All survivors are welcome.

MONMOUTH COUNTY

180 Turning Lives Around
24 Hr. Hotline: 1-888-843-9262
Office: 732-264-4111
Deaf & Hard of Hearing Text Line: 732-977-2766
www.180nj.org

MORRIS COUNTY

JBWS – Safety, Support & Solutions for Abuse
24 Hr. Hotline: 1-877-782-2873 or 1-877-R-U-ABUSED
Deaf & Hard of Hearing Text Line: 973-314-4192
www.jbws.org

 Morris Family Justice Center (MFJC) *

Phone: (973) 829-4050
www.morrisfjc.org

OCEAN COUNTY

Providence House Domestic Violence Services of Catholic Charities – Ocean
24 Hr. Hotline: (732) 244-8259
Toll free: 1-800-246-8910
www.catholiccharitiestrenton.org/domestic-violence-services/

PASSAIC COUNTY

Passaic County Domestic & Sexual Violence Services
24 Hr. Hotline: (973) 881-1450
www.passaiccountywomenscenter.org

Project S.A.R.A.H.
24 Hr. Hotline: 1-888-883-2323
Phone: (973) 777-7638 ext:300
www.jfsclifton.org/projectsarah/

WAFA House *
Toll free: 1-800-930-9232
www.wafahouse.org/
*Wafa House is a Domestic Violence Agency, built within the Arab and Muslim communities throughout Northern New Jersey. This program can be reached during regular business hours.

SALEM COUNTY

Salem County Women’s Services
24 Hr. Hotline: (856) 935-6655
www.salemcountywomensservices.org

SOMERSET COUNTY

Safe+Sound Somerset
24 Hr. Call or Text Hotline: (866) 685-1122
www.safe-sound.org

SUSSEX COUNTY

DASI: Domestic Abuse & Sexual Assault Intervention Services
24 Hr. Hotline: (973) 875-1211
Deaf & Hard of Hearing Text Line: (973) 222-2593
www.dasi.org

UNION COUNTY

Project: PROTECT
YWCA Union County
24 Hr. Hotline: (908) 355-4357 (HELP)
www.ywcaunioncounty.org

WARREN COUNTY

Domestic Abuse & Sexual Assault Crisis Center (DASACC)
24 Hr. Hotline: 908-453-4181
www.dasacc.org